Forgive and Forget...a very simple statement but it has great implications...
Is it possible to forgive a wrong and forget all the hurt and pain that was caused? YES, It is. Not an easy task but possible.
You might wonder, why forgive a person who has done you wrong or forget something that has hurt you and caused you pain, specially if the person who did it, did so knowingly. Well, its simple. For your peace of mind.
This is what I feel:
There is no point in keeping all the anger and frustration inside. The only way to move on is to completely forgive the person.
When I say completely forgive, what I mean is not have any grudge against that person what so ever. When you meet or speak to this person, there has to be no sign of the hurt and pain. You have to be at peace with yourself. Every time you feel angry or negative towards this one person just think of all the nice time you had with him/her. Thank God for all the nice times that you had and then forgive this person for causing you all the pain.
Come to understand that there are some things that you just cannot control. Why be angry at one person for something that went wrong. As they say... there are 2 sides to every coin. No one person is ever at fault. It has to be both ways. ALWAYS! At times it might so happen that only one person may be affected more in the whole situation.
Things go wrong. Shit happens. Its life. People fight, some make up some don't. But even if you don't make up doesn't mean you have not forgiven the person. You just have to be so at peace with yourself that whatever has happened should not affect you anymore. Forgiving someone doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be buddies again. Its just that you have to let go.
It takes a strong person to forgive someone and be-friend them again, after all that they have put you through. Everyone has this strong person in them. Its just a matter of time that this person will surface.
There are some who just move. But deep down inside they carry with them the pain of whatever has gone wrong. And then there is one day when all of it just surfaces and they go through the entire cycle of getting over it. Why do this to yourself? Why go through the horror over and over again. Forgive and Forget people. Be at peace with yourself.
Let go...Its not impossible, try it!
Is it possible to forgive a wrong and forget all the hurt and pain that was caused? YES, It is. Not an easy task but possible.
You might wonder, why forgive a person who has done you wrong or forget something that has hurt you and caused you pain, specially if the person who did it, did so knowingly. Well, its simple. For your peace of mind.
This is what I feel:
There is no point in keeping all the anger and frustration inside. The only way to move on is to completely forgive the person.
When I say completely forgive, what I mean is not have any grudge against that person what so ever. When you meet or speak to this person, there has to be no sign of the hurt and pain. You have to be at peace with yourself. Every time you feel angry or negative towards this one person just think of all the nice time you had with him/her. Thank God for all the nice times that you had and then forgive this person for causing you all the pain.
Come to understand that there are some things that you just cannot control. Why be angry at one person for something that went wrong. As they say... there are 2 sides to every coin. No one person is ever at fault. It has to be both ways. ALWAYS! At times it might so happen that only one person may be affected more in the whole situation.
Things go wrong. Shit happens. Its life. People fight, some make up some don't. But even if you don't make up doesn't mean you have not forgiven the person. You just have to be so at peace with yourself that whatever has happened should not affect you anymore. Forgiving someone doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be buddies again. Its just that you have to let go.
It takes a strong person to forgive someone and be-friend them again, after all that they have put you through. Everyone has this strong person in them. Its just a matter of time that this person will surface.
There are some who just move. But deep down inside they carry with them the pain of whatever has gone wrong. And then there is one day when all of it just surfaces and they go through the entire cycle of getting over it. Why do this to yourself? Why go through the horror over and over again. Forgive and Forget people. Be at peace with yourself.
Let go...Its not impossible, try it!
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