Just yesterday I was thinking of all the mistakes we make in life... how they all get to us some way or the other... Now, when I say mistakes I don't just mean the intentional one's, coz these do get back at us in some way...the one's that I am more concerned about or those that worry me the most are the one's that we don't know we have made!
Like take for instance the misunderstandings that you can have among friends...you don't know about it till something goes majorly wrong between you and the friend. You either end up talking about it, which is a good thing of course, or you end up losing a good friend...for what?? This was not intended...
Sometimes, we forgive and forget...but that does not help either, as then the person who has done wrong, thinks he can do it again. But you don't want to lose a good friend...so what do you do in this case. What if your being nice is the biggest mistake you are making??? What then?
When does being nice to someone spoil things? What is the limit that we have to set? Who sets this limit? These are some questions that no one but you can answer!!! You set the limit and decide when to stop being nice... but then the question arises...what if it is too late?
How do you mend something that is broken from the inside and does not show the cracks on the outside?
Everything that you do comes back to you in some way or the other...even being nice to someone has its own drawbacks...When being nice to someone, make sure that it is not morphing into a big mistake that can spoil things not just for you, but for all those who are involved...and sometimes, for those who are not too...
This, has been my lesson for now...
Like take for instance the misunderstandings that you can have among friends...you don't know about it till something goes majorly wrong between you and the friend. You either end up talking about it, which is a good thing of course, or you end up losing a good friend...for what?? This was not intended...
Sometimes, we forgive and forget...but that does not help either, as then the person who has done wrong, thinks he can do it again. But you don't want to lose a good friend...so what do you do in this case. What if your being nice is the biggest mistake you are making??? What then?
When does being nice to someone spoil things? What is the limit that we have to set? Who sets this limit? These are some questions that no one but you can answer!!! You set the limit and decide when to stop being nice... but then the question arises...what if it is too late?
How do you mend something that is broken from the inside and does not show the cracks on the outside?
Everything that you do comes back to you in some way or the other...even being nice to someone has its own drawbacks...When being nice to someone, make sure that it is not morphing into a big mistake that can spoil things not just for you, but for all those who are involved...and sometimes, for those who are not too...
This, has been my lesson for now...
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